Well, it was when we were at the start of secondary school, at that time, the girl and I just started to date, but it was only for a short time, around a month, because she had to leave for another city. But, ever since, I cannot get her off my mind, because she is just too important to me, it feels like she is the one.

After she left for another city, we still keep in contact, through facebook, msn, etc. and we met up a few times, but all these were just "friend" stuff. I don't know if she still likes me or not, but I do know that I still deeply love her.

Few days ago, I started to think, should I just confess and tell her that for the past 6 years I still love her deeply? I don't wanna scare her and ruin our friendship, but I just can't get my mind off her, the feeling of loneliness and confusion is really really annoying....

Would I have t confess every single sin I committed? I have lied so many times in my life that I lost track and I can hardly remember any of them. If I confess to the priest, would I have to tell him every single lie I told, or would I just have to tell him what I lie about? Please tell me because I do feel very upset about all of the lies I told and I am worried that if I do need to confess all of my sins in detail, i won't be able to and will go to hell. I have also done other sins that I remember a little bit.

Last night, I had an affair with my closest male friend. It was the first time I cheated on my boyfriend, but I didn't feel guilty about it. I could have moved on and forgotten about it.

This morning, my friend texts me asking me if I love him. We just openly admitted that we have feelings for each other, but because we are both dating other people, we cannot be together.

We are willing to try and stay friends, but I wish I could be with him instead of my boyfriend.

I've have been having an affair with a married man from Lititz PA for the past 15 years. I left my marriage, in which I felt quite lonely and neglected. I lost custody of my two daughters for three years, but they returned to me because their father was only trying to punish me.

The man's wife discovered our affair and she threatened to take his children and move far away. Still, he continued to see me. I believed that he loved me, I know that I love him. I didn't want to hurt his children the way mine were hurt. All of the children are grown now. The last in college. He has a grandchild now so he will feel the need to remain part of his family.

Still he will contact me and call me endearing names and want to see me. Not necessarily for sex.

Is he just narcissistic?

@Zack from Ms. Mystery:
It's sad when you meet someone and the timing isn't right. You can fall in love, but if one person isn't ready or available, it falls apart and it always hurts.
Right now, the more you chase her, the more she's going to run away from you. Give her space. If things are meant to work out in the future, they will. Relax, stay busy doing other things. Don't chase her!

So I've been seeing this girl for awhile. At first she showed interest and I was definitely interested in her so I pounced. We started doing stuff together, and got closer. The only thing is that I'm now going away for the summer for a job (we're both in college), and she now says that we need to wait until I get back for anything to happen. She's scared of becoming too attached to someone that is a five hour drive away. I'm here for another two weeks but she keeps pushing me away, for this reason. I practically had a breakdown tonight because she wouldn't talk this out with me. She's now avoiding me. It's driving me crazy. I don't know what is going on. It's a mess but any incite would be helpful.

Sometimes it is unfortunate that why people we want to love, choose not to love us back. I strongly believe that we all have a match in this world but need to wait until we can get a serious relationship with us and will last. When one attempt to a relationship fails, it simply meant to be. If you are affected with the pain because of the relationship, always remember you can recover it. This could be easily dealt with if only our emotions are not evolved when we start to feel strongly for someone but more often than not ,the heart rules strongly over our head.

about two years ago, i moved across the country with a guy. we have been dating since then, but we recently told eachother we cant take care of ourselves, let alone eachother. So i am moving back in with my parents and saving up so i can come back. we both agreed on this. i am scared because it will be long distance and for a few months or so. i keep thinking that i should just end it and live my life as me for awhile, but i cant just lock him in a cage and hope he waits..i need help!

I have an addiction to shoes. I buy them and hide them in the trunk of my car so my husband doesn't see them. I have hundreds. If he comments when I wear them I just tell them I've had them for a long time. He never knows. How can I stop?? We can't afford it.

I'd had affairs with other girls. What can i do? I don't want to lose my girl, but I don't want to tell her about that, so life goes on...

i want to have sex with my ex who happens to father my child. he's attached and will get marry soon. i want sex, just pure sex.

Humans are weak. We are always continuously tested and tempted. Will you forgive her if she tells you the truth? If the truth is she had an intimate affair, will you trust her not to do it again? If you can't live with it, then dump her and carry on with your life!

Okay guys , a little advice here please, I just found out that 9 months ago my girlfriend had an affair. I only found out because her phone bills went from £30pm to £140pm. When I confronted her she told me it was a female friend who was going through a difficult patch. This did not wash and although I could not prove anything. I kept digging.

6 months later she finally admitted to texting a bloke, again it did not wash so I kept on digging. A few nights later she admitted to meeting him 5 times over the 3 month period. One of these times was at MY HOUSE while i was OUT WORKING for our family !!

She admitted to kissing on these occasions and going to meet him, and meeting him at her friend's house. However she will not admit they were intimate!!!!

I find it hard to believe, if not impossible, that 2 people can have an affair over a period of time and not be intimate!! She said he tried to "go down on her once and she told him to stop and leave." She says that was it that was the only intimate time!! Why cant she TELL ME THE TRUTH???

Them being in my home killed me. Surly being honest about sex won't make me feel any worse.

She says it was never physical on her part, and that she was going through a bad patch with me and he was saying all the right words. She says she never found him physically attractive, and it was all in his patter. She says she never had feelings for him only for the things he said. If this is so why risk a seven year relationship? Why risk leaving 2 children fatherless? Why risk it at all?

She says she loves me and want us to get married and live happily ever after, BUT I NEED to know THE TRUTH. How can I get her to finally come clean and tell me everything? She claims she has but she also claimed for 9 months while I was asking her to come clean that she had not been unfaithful??

Any ideas greatly appreciated.

I am 24 and I have been married for almost two years. My wife is extremely lazy and unmotivated and she is jealous that I am going to leave her someday but doesn't seem to do much about it. I have never cheated on her but I have thoughts of doing it all the time. I just met up with my ex girlfriend (from when I was very young) and it seems very tempting to cheat on my wife. I have even thought about trying to divorce my wife but make sure she has a place she wants to live, a job, etc. I'm not that much of an asshole to just throw her out.

One minute I love her and the next minute I feel like I could divorce her.. this isn't healthy!

I am married for 16 long years. I live with my wife and 10 year old son, but have slept on the couch for the past 2 years. I have a loveless marriage and stay together cuz my lawyer says I need to until our house is sold so the equity does not become a part of the settlement as we can split it now vs. later. I met someone online, and have seen her about 10 times since meeting about a month ago. We've gotten quite intimate, and she thinks I am a single dad. It's killing me cuz she is such a sweet girl with such a great attitude. I don't want to lose her as I am looking to move out so I can be with her. I see my lie when I look into her eyes.........ouch.

I grew a ton of ganja and sold it to the entire community. People were getting high all over the place and I was profiting off of it.

Look, I expect to experience a lifestyle of lavish affluence via a jackpot lotto win. Why? Because I want to. I have nothing left to experience now but extreme wealth. First, I wanted a boyfriend, I tried love, I tried marriage, I have kids, I became a writer- now I want to experience a lifestyle of extreme lavish affluence and I want to do it by buying a quickpick Lotto Texas ticket. I want to know what its like to win a lot- a multimillion dollar jackpot- of money. What is the process? What happens technically? And what does it FEEL like? I want to know. I want to experience it. I always experience everything that comes in my mind and I've ever set my heart on. That's because I expect to. If it's in my mind, I know it's going to happen. All I have to do is write it down and talk about it and I'll experience it. So…what happens? I'll accept my experience now please.

My friends boyfriend took us to his friends house because no parents were there. My friend and I weren't nervous. It was just what we do every weekend. We went to his friends house and they said I couldn't take these shots and of course I wanted to show I could! Unfortunately I ended up getting drunk and hooking up with his 18 year old friend who just got out of jail three weeks ago. Also I wake up to be told I pissed myself three times, have a bruise on my hip,15 hickeys on my neck, and did EVERYTHING but sex! I'm happy to say I stopped getting wasted and pray that I don't see his friend again!

I am married and have a woman I've met for lunch a few times. Nothing has happened, but I haven't told her I'm married. I know this is wrong. Pray for me to stop this.

I am a sex addict, I guess. I was with my boyfriend this morning, then a guy from class at lunch. Then I met a guy for drinks tonight! Three in one day!!! I love it and can't stop.

I am having an affair with a coworker. We meet for "Lunch" every day. I love my husband but he doesn't give me enough loving. I feel only slightly guilty.

My GF and I are animal lovers. We have an interesting thing we do together. We both have Easter Bunny costumes and do the wild thing while dressed up as Bunnies. We were true Energizer Bunnies! ;-)
I confess that it's the best sex ever. Next is Darth Vadar and Princess Leila.

I stayed up all night and caught the Easter Bunny sneaking into my house. He was sure cute.

I stole a Playboy magazine out of a store. Sometimes I look at the girls and wank off at night. But I don't feel that guilty... just about the stealing part. But it was for a good cause.

My boyfriend and I were friends for years and only started dating a month ago. He told me the other day he wants to say he loves me. I didn't know what to say and he said he was afraid he's scare me off, but loved me all these years.

I feel guilty because I know I don't feel the same.

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